According to Dictionary meaning of smiles,
its means a facial expression comprised by flexing the muscles of both ends of
one's mouth, often showing the front teeth, without vocalization, and in humans
is a common involuntary or voluntary expression of happiness, pleasure,
amusement or anxiety. Also according to wikihow smiles create an infinite
impact on people and life in general. A smile given to the right person at the
right time could influence what that person does next and the choices they
make.
Smiles have the power to break down the
cold walls of indifference and warm a lonely heart that's blue. Discover one of
life's most constructive weapons and that's the power of your smile positioned
for your own advantage.
Six Beautiful
Advantages of Smiling 1) you’re More Attractive! Do
you want to be more attractive? Simple. Smile! Research has proven that we find
others more attractive when they are wearing a smile. This one is a no-brainer,
but for the sake of helping it land in your mind, think about someone who you
know and think of first when they are down, sad, angry, frustrated, whatever it
may be. How attractive are they? Now picture them simply with a smile on their
face. What does this do to their attractiveness? If you took the time to do
this exercise, I’m sure you would have easily found the smiling version much
more attractive, and maybe this even made you feel a happy tingle inside
yourself! This leads to my next point. 2) You Can CHANGE THE WORLD! A Smile is
Contagious! Have you ever been in a sour mood and then someone has come along
with a huge smile, some laughter or in a really good mood? Perhaps a baby that
just looked up at you and smiled? How did this make you feel? When the person
you are talking to or the people that surround you are smiling, you won’t be
able to help but smile! A smile has special powers. You can calm fear,
insecurity, hurt and anxiety not only in yourself, but in those that are
experiencing those feelings. The next time someone is feeling sad, scared,
nervous, whatever it may be, smile with them and see how this makes them feel!
Even 2Pac, the rap legend that passed away realized the benefits of smiling, in
his lyrics to ‘Power of a Smile’ he raps: The power of a gun can kill, and the power
of fire can burn The power of wind can chill, and the power of mind can learn
The power of anger, can raise inside until it tears you apart But the power of
a smile, especially yours, can heal a frozen heart A smile is a contagious
thing. Give to the world and the world will give back to you. Smile at the
world and the world will smile back at you. You will brighten the days of those
around and make a difference in their lives… simply by smiling! 3) Grow Old
Sexily! Wrinkles, wrinkles, wrinkles! Something that we all don’t want to have,
however it is something that comes to us all leaving permanent marks of our
emotional feelings throughout life. Smiling throughout life will NOT mean you
won’t get wrinkles… I wish it did! It WILL however mean that you will have
permanent marks of happiness and when you speak with those later in life, you
will automatically be smiling! You also use fewer muscles to smile than you do
for frowning. Hopefully you’re smiling now as you read this, but if not, smile
now! … Now that you have tried smiling, try and frown. Which one do you think
is easier? I would definitely say smiling is the easier of the two, and
therefore stretching your muscles and skin less throughout life to grow old
sexily! 4) Simply Feel Good! When you’re smiling, no doubt you’re having a much
better time than when you’re not! Smiling simply makes you feel better!
Research has shown that smiling releases serotonin – a neurotransmitter that
produces feelings of happiness and wellbeing. It’s like a circle of happiness.
Smile and you feel happy, you feel happy and you smile! Even when you’re not
feeling great, try smiling, genuinely, and see how you feel! 5) Build Better,
Faster Relationships! Smiling is such a key ingredient for establishing healthy
and genuine friendships. When someone is smiling at you it indicates that they
like you. When someone likes you what do you think of them? Yep, normally
you’re thinking “wow, I like this person!” Smiling also offers encouragement to
the person that you are talking to. Think about it, if someone is smiling at
you while you are talking to them, you feel as though they are totally into
what you are saying, encouraging you to keep going! Smiling is crucial when it
comes to first impressions. Smiling when you first meet someone will indicate
to the other person that you are genuinely happy to see them and that you are a
positive person. These impressions will be lasting on the other person so
definitely not one to miss!
6) Enhance your Business! Business deals
can be made simply through smiling. One of the first things that sales people
quickly learn is to smile. Who would you rather buy something from? The sales
rep that looks bored, down, angry, frustrated or whatever it may be, or from
the sales rep that is simply smiling and happy to see you? The messages that
they convey in conversation will link back to how they are feeling. A smiling
person would be much more enthusiastic for the product and instill positive
feelings in the buyer. Even telesales have got a hold on this. Now sales reps
that are on the other side of the phone are encouraged to smile when they talk
as the smile is conveyed in how the person is talking!
Action Plan
1) Smile! It can’t be that hard, can it?
2) Visualize your happiest moments a number
of people will say that they find it hard to smile due to circumstances in
their life. Research has shown that our thoughts and feelings influence our behaviors.
As this is the case, I encourage you to close your eyes and think of the
moments that have made you laugh and smile. How does this make you feel? These
visualization exercises are great for helping you smile.
3) Just do it! Further research has now
flipped the above completely on its head and suggested that our behaviors can
actually influence our thoughts and feelings! As this is the case, I encourage
you to JUST DO IT! Simply forcing a smile will give you the benefits of the
above. Stand up straight, work on your posture, smile to the world and ‘fake it
till you make it’! It WILL work!
beautiful
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